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French kissing
29/06/2006 17:09
The most important thing to remember: When you want to French kiss a guy, first start off with some nice, slow closed-mouth kisses, then some open-mouthed no-tongue kisses. This gets your lips warmed up and lets you get into the joy and closeness of kissing. So relax and take your time before moving on to anything involving your tongue. It's really important to go slow and ease into it when you're going to French kiss.
Once you're ready to start using your tongue, it's best to give the boy you're kissing a signal that you're going to do it. Do this by opening your mouth a little bit and maybe darting your tongue out just a bit. Give his lips a tiny lick with your tongue, just a bit, so that he knows what's coming up. If he's into French kissing you, he'll probably open his lips a little and maybe lick your lips back a bit. This is good! It means you have a "green light" to keep on going.
It's nice to just do this kind of light tonguing for a bit. It can be very exciting to tease each other's lips with your tongues, sharing each other's breath. Whatever you do, do NOT shove your tongue right into his mouth! That will feel gross to him (guys rate it the number one thing girls do to turn them off while kissing) and it's way too aggressive. If he gets over-excited and puts his tongue way in your mouth, gently pull back from the kiss for a second and start again, doing your light tongue touches so he gets the message he needs to take it slower.
When you want to get a little deeper into French kissing, all you have to do is just extend your tongue a little more into your mouth. Basically you'll be doing exactly what you've been doing, but just deeper. Use a little more of your tongue, and let the kisses last a little longer. The key to a great French kiss is to keep your mouth nice and soft, and to be really gentle and relaxed.
While you're French kissing, it may help to think of your and his tongue dancing together. Keep them moving in light, smooth movements. Lick the inside of the boy's lips, run your tongue over his gums on top of his teeth and below, pull your tongue away and slip it back gently. Make little circles around the tip of his tongue with your tongue. Do what feels natural. Remember French kissing is about cooperation. It's all about your tongues fluttering around together in a sensual dance. It's not one person shoving their tongue further into the other's person's mouth!
If you're kissing a boy who has more experience at French kissing than you do, you may find you're keeping your tongue a bit back and he has his tongue in your mouth more. That's okay, but try to relax and get more equal movement (you tongue tasting and exploring his mouth AND his tasting yours) as you go along. Just keep your mouth soft and open and relax so you can fully enjoy all the kissing that's going on!
When you really like what the boy kissing you is doing, if a movement he makes feels good, encourage him by giving a little moan. He'll know you like it and do more of it! You can judge how he likes the kissing by the sounds he makes too. If he makes a groan when you do a certain thing with your tongue, you can be sure he likes it.
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